The Many Versions of You
A Ballad of Self-Worth
Many worry about being loved and accepted,
Being understood and cherished.
And there is no harm in that.
But instead of wanting to be seen as a better person,
A better parent, or a better worker,
Would it hurt to accept the way we are perceived by others?
Would it hurt to see in ourselves what they see?
It’s pointless to spend so much of your precious energy
Into trying to shape how others perceive you;
For one fundamental reason: there are many versions of you.
And no matter what you do,
Others will only embrace one myriad version.
Only one to accept as truth.
For some, you are a benevolent angel,
The purest version someone can think of -
Always aiding those in need
And guiding young minds toward their best selves
For others, you may be charming but arrogant,
Smart but shallow and naive.
Neighbors may see you as a healthy, fit, and strong person